assalamualaikum and hi!
this is the summary of what had been talked by brother aiman azlan and and sister wardina during an event of beetles and roses at taylor's university.
i'm thankful to ALLAH because that event have been recorded and posted on youtube.
even though i can't join the event , watching the video is such a happy thing for me.
thank you :)
so, enjoy reading yaa! :))
a.HOW TO MANAGE A FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE? (brother Aiman Azlan)1.communicate only when there's something urgent (studies)
2.always listen to your heart( it can detect the sin, and beware of your mind)
b.HOW TO LOVE?(sister Wardina)1.meet a stranger
2.standing to each other and talking about yourself with that stranger.
3.staring each other for 4 min.
4.get attracted with each other.
5.fall in love
take note! when u fall in love. ask yourself. are u fall in love or is it just lust?
think about it.
c.IS DATING HALAL?(brother Aiman Azlan)1.halal... if you're married :)
2.be romantic with your husband n wife
3romantic scene of Rasulullah:
Rasulullah love Aisyah just like a knot on a rope. then Aisyah ask. how is the knot now? just like before :)
Aisyah's necklace lost in desert n Rasulullah ask the entire army to look for it. to prove his love to his wife when Aisyah is in her period, she drank water n Rasullullah drank the same place of the glass(at aisyah's lips)
4.attach ur love to ALLAH SWT. .5.that love is true if it brings you close to ALLAH.
6.the end of your marriAge: go to jannah! <3
7.if u want to love someone, think is it ALLAH please with your action?. think. think.think.
8.love is not madness! love is not addiction!
9.seek the love from ALLAH.
10.sign of marriage: its point u to ALLAH SWT. if not. think. am i doing it right?
1.love start with communication
2.back to reality. if u love someone . love her/him because of ALLAH SWT.
3.be realistic.after married everything is just about responsibility.
4.when u fall in love. you'll never realize the bad of him/her
5.before getting married, u must know what are the characteristics of your spouse.
6.love ALLAH first before loving ALLAH'S slave.
7.statistic shows that love before marriage will not last longer.
8.must compatible with each other (husband&wife)
e.EARLY MARRIAGE FOR STUDENTS?(brother Aiman Azlan)1.say no to islamic couple. (syaitan itu licik. dy gna muka islamic to approve love before marriage)
2.jgn tpdaya dgn bnyi2 islamik. THINK ISLAMIC.
3.if u want to get married. u must serious.know ur aim!
4.if u want it. show your effort! (in a positive way)
5.maturity depends on your experience
6.are u ready? if yes? just go with it. ALLAH will complete it for u
7.choose a spouse for your children not for yourself. (think beyond yourself)
8.parenting start before marriage n d first children that you'll raise is yourself!
9.marriage is your investment to go to JANNAH.
10.marriage is between 2 families.
11.go get married but please READY for it.
f.HOW TO FIND THE PERFECT MATCH FOR OUR SPOUSE?(sister Wardina)1.three important things-know how to get the conscious of love (emotional intelligence)
- success in love depends on how u regulate(kawal) your love.
- love for finding the overall happiness.
2.find your motivation.
3.before loving anyone else love yourself first. (LOVE ALLAH FIRST THEN YOURSELF)
g.CLOSINGbrother Aiman Azlan :marriage is a beautiful thing.
it is so beautiful till i myself,don't want to have a girl friend.
xsiapa tau jodoh kita. hanya ALLAH SWT.
be active! islam is a proactive religiOns.
sister Wardina :dont ruin ur life for bad love,
if u have d feeling.and you're not ready yet. keep it to yourself.
. if there is jodoh just get married.
tahan hawa nafsu dengan takuti kebesaran ALLAH SWT.
ok that's all from me.
if there is any mistakes. correct it for me ok..
just want to share it with you guys